I've been thinking a great deal about my blog. How I have changed in the 2 1/2 years I've been writing it. How the purpose of the blog has changed. How I have struggled to find content to write here because I was certain that my readers didn't want to read a sex blog that focused on motherhood and walking through the evolution that motherhood was having on my sexuality and sex life.
So I just haven't blogged much since I became pregnant with the LM.
My readership has dropped by more than half, and I'm guessing it's in large part due to the lack of posts or a lack of interest in what I'm talking about.
I think I've been waiting for a return to the old DN. Then the blog would fall back into place. But I'm not the old DN and I never will be again. I have to accept that. As I have changed, so must DN the blog if I am not going to fade off into the world of mommyblogging, where it is impolite to talk about sex the way I do and it's shocking to have the opinions I have about relationships.
I don't know what that means in terms of the blog. If you're just here for hot scenes to jerk off to...well, there's my archives. I'm sure I'll do some of that here and there, but this blog has always about my sexuality and how it is changing and growing. In order for me to process how having the LM has changed me, I'm going to have to talk about her. This wont' be the place for cute anecdotes (for the most part) but it will be my journey from post-partum mom of a sick baby to a woman who is just starting to masturbate regularly again.
I hope some of you will come along for the ride.

I prefer a sex blog that touches on all of life's activities sexual and not. It makes it much more interesting. Pure sex blogs are fun for a day or two but get old straight away because sex blogs are a dime a dozen the additional inclusion of life's other activities is more readable.
Posted by: Big Geek | July 29, 2009 at 08:45 PM