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December 16, 2006

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jessejplavka

seriously? this is made up isn't it..

Sexyhusband

I'm not saying there weren't moments in the past few weeks when I wanted to pinch myself (metaphorically speaking)... but it was real. Completely, totally, utterly real. I'm the luckiest guy in the world.

raspberries

Thanks for sharing your threesome! Have you ever considered a MFM threesome?

Deliciously Naughty

We're in the discussion phase when it comes to the MFM threesome. Sexyhusband is open to it, and it's a huge fantasy of mine, so it's likely we'll get to it eventually.

It's a little trickier because I like to play with girls occasionally and Sexyhusband isn't really into guys. That makes a threesome with a girl more comfortable for both of us.

Salvor

Thank you for the description and sharing your moments with us. It made for a great start to a monday morning :D

Al Sensu

"she leaned over and began to tease a nipple while I started teasing the other"

That is the #1 reason I'd love to have a FMF 3some one day.

I've had MFM, and I am straight. It was fun. But I'd really love to have the attention of two women at once.

nessa

Hi i recently had a threesome MFM and my bf and i were quite drunk. We invited a guy over we never met before and pretty much right away we started in the bedroom. Everytime they switched to do me in each part of me i made them change condoms, better safe than sorry i am always safe. This was my first experience in a threesome, but what i want to know is if we can catch anything at all by doign what we did even giving head and when the other guy had already been tested? My bf is so paranoid and wants to get tested, but i keep tellig him we will be fine as long as we used protection and changed them everytime we did something different.

Help advise please.

Deliciously Naughty

I answered Nessa with this email, which I thought might be helpful to everyone at large, so I also posted it here.

Nessa,

Sorry to hear that your first threesome wasn't ideal.

To answer your question, of whether you and your boyfriend are at risk for having caught an STD...

I would say that your risk is very low (no such thing as non-existant if you're sexually active, period). Assuming that what you said is correct-that both men were wearing condoms at all times and that they switchd them when they switched activities, with NO errors, I'd put your risk at less than 1%

Your risk level does go up if you allowed the stranger to come in you (or your boyfriend allowed the third person to come in him) either vaginally (highest risk), anally (second highest) or orally (lowest).

As to the whole "should I/we get tested" question...you're both right. There is a minute chance something could have happened, but it's so low that getting tested is most likely about peace of mind.

I know that I've never participated in any high risk activities for HIV, nor have I ever (to my knowledge) been with an HIV+ person. That hasn't stopped me from getting tested for it once a year when I go in for my annual exam when I was single (or just dating) and every other year since I've been with Sexyhusband. I also insist on getting tested for everything each year to be safe, and because we've been with another person.

Getting tested isn't a matter of trust or lack of trust. It's always good to know where you stand medically, and should anything ever go wrong, early detection is often the key to containment and treatment.

I hope this helps and feel free to ask a further question if I can be of any other help.

--DN

If you want some sites to look at for more professional advice

The CDC (center for disease control) http://www.cdc.gov/std/
Scarlet Teen (little less technical but still all accurate info) http://www.scarleteen.com/

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