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December 10, 2006

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Will Belegon

Unfortunately, it's not only teachers. I am very familiar with morality clauses. They exist in my industry too, as well as rather undefinable things about reinvesting in the community and being a good business citizen. It's why you'll never see my face on my work. At least not until my writing brings in enough that I can quit the day job.

I feel for her. I wish it could be resolved, but I fear even if she were to sue and win, she still won't ever have what they have taken from her.

Wendy

As a former sex worker I would hate it if my past interfered with my future.

Note

Let's just say something about Dr. Phil, as I see and understand him: he is judgment, not therapy.

This came to me as I was watching the UK's favorite moderator, Trisha Goddard from Channel 5, a talk show host who also focuses on the disparities of human life; and brings people in who need counseling, not just to share their story; ostensibly, just like dear ol' Phil; but the similarity ends drastically at the premise.

Often, Dr. Phil is acting out on behalf of the victims of bad behaviour, not the health and well-being of all parties involved. He uses shame and ridicule to bring out admissions of wrongdoing, transgression and shame. He's tough love. Tough love is great for those beside the patient, those who want vindication and vengeance, but it has a spotty record of success with the people who actually let themselves be ruled by their flaws.

Trisha, on the other hand, seems not out to judge, but rather maintains authority over bad behaviour, by not bringing in the hammer of prescribed morality. She asks questions, patient and loaded, and nine times out of ten, uncovers the tip of an emotional iceberg before summarizing what she sees as the root of a problem, before pointing out that they can choose to become better people. A crazy amount of the time she succeeds in winning seemingly genuine confessions from people, often showing that they do know how they affect the others around them, and that they just don’t know how to be better. Then she packs them off to proper therapy.

There's a problem with a nation that can accept Phil as an icon, because it's an icon that doesn't belong in an Age of Information, an age that should make it obvious that absolutely no one is entitled to judge another, as there is no middle ground or normalcy; all there is is diversity.

I’ve never seen a doctor when I’ve looked at him, all I’ve ever witnessed is a warden out to prove a chimera: the American status quo.

Oscar the Observer

My dream is that all sexbloggers and other type of bloggers who blog about sex but not in-depth but enough that they are forced to be anonymous get together and agree on a date. That date will be the day EVERYONE of bloggers who blog about sex in supportive way (was going to say pro-sex as opposed to anti-sex but ti was wieldy word *lol*) disclose their real identities all over the country. Then what will happen? The companies and schools will notice and try to boot them out BUT! It will be in overwhelming numbers! I dream that people will notice that court system is CLOSE to breakdown because of lawsuits going on and finally DEMAND THAT MORALITY CLAUSE (OFFICIAL OR NOT) IS JUST PILE OF SHIT! Then after that everyone can be open about their sexuality anywhere appropriate because everyone else will nod in understanding since THEY are just as sexual!

At least that is my fond fantasy till people arise and REBEL against our tradition of being prudes *smile*. Good post!

Travis Thebes

It's more like she starred in around TWO DOZEN not one porn (which she lied about). She also lied in that she'd already done one stint in the Army and was already eligible for GI Bill and VA assistance. She also lied that she was married and abandoned he husband and her child (which he adopted) to star in pornos. She also had a reputation in the Army as the barracks slut (I know I was in the same unit as she was).

Funny how things aren't quite what they seem at first.

Deliciously Naughty

Travis-a few points

1-I don't care how many movies she starred in. It's not illegal for someone over the age of 21 to star in an adult movie. It shouldn't be grounds for firing her as a teacher. Period.

2-I've gone back through the articles and can't substantiate any of your claims. I'm pretty certain that if they were true, the media would've had a field day with it. So I'm guessing you're just not that credible as a commenter.

3-Your comment about her being a slut is your third strike in the mind of this sex positive/feminist/teacher site owner.

Your IP is now banned.

Jason

Just a little clarification, Ms. Dye wasn't fired. She was not tenured which means that she has only a "year to year" contract. In the state of Kentucky there has to be absolutely zero cause for a year to year contract not to be renewed and hers simply was not. She was paid out of her existing contract and that is that. This is fact, not opinion.

What else is fact is that she thoroughly lied on her board application in regards to her credentials and military background as well as her former employment. She was asked for her last three employers of which one was the film industry and she did not list that.

So regardless of what the "reason" is, she lied. She lied on an application and even if her motives were innocent and not meant to be abusive, it was still a lie nonetheless. Any employer in the US that is worth working for would not tolerate deliberate ommissions on their resume and application.

I do not disagree that it is unfair that we hold certain job descriptions to a higher standard, but the bottom line is that we do and it is expected. This revelation created a situation where no one attending this school would have had any respect for and would never see her in the same light ever again. It may have happened years ago, but to the teenager who watch the video recently, it was just like it was last week.

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